Gay Advice: When The In Love Feeling is Gone
Reader’s Question: The first year with my boyfriend was amazing. We connected so well. Now, in year two, I feel like he takes me for granted, and I do the same to him. I have to admit that this has happened to me before. What can I do to stay contented…
Save Yourself: How to Deal with Highly Negative People
Highly negative people prevent us from making positive changes in our life. Having to face negative people on a daily basis can be downright exhausting. They’ve trained themselves to close their minds off from possibilities and choosing to focus on the lack of them. Over time these self-constraints pile up to create personal enslavement,…
Gay Dating Advice: What to Do When He Doesn’t Call You Back
You know the scenario. You go out on a first date with that incredible guy who seems like he meets all your criteria for good boyfriend material and you both seemingly had a great time. You maybe even got a kiss and exchanged lots of flirtatious banter that raised your…
The Unspoken Truth About Casual Sex
I know I don’t have to tell you that gay men enjoy sex, honey. But so does everyone else – it’s called being human. One thing that separates us from the rest of society, unfortunately, is our experience with casual sex. It’s become a stereotype we often try to fight against (even…
How to Feel Beautiful and Boost Confidence
In order to be special, you must first feel special… When I was a kid, my mother would tell me I was the cutest kid in the choir. She was my mother so I had no reason not to believe her. I carried her confidence with me throughout my adolescence until I became…
Easy Ways to Enhance and Deepen Your Relationship
Our relationships grow deeper and more fulfilling when we have the ability to express ourselves and to listen more deeply to our partner. Intimacy requires us to become vulnerable to one another. For men, that sometimes seems contrary to everything they’ve learned about how to lead life. The paradox is:…
10 Tips on Handling Your Office Crush
Like most 9 to 5 people, I’ve had multiple crushes on coworkers. There’s no shame in it, but there’s always a time when you should ask yourself if it’s a good idea. Personally I think it’s hot to fantasize about what your cubicle mate is wearing underneath his suit. It…
Be Yourself: 3 Ways to Stand Out From the Crowd
Standing out from a crowd requires more than just a fancy outfit or a loud set of vocal cords. It’s about being memorable, inspiring and above all, original. The world today has turned into an attention competition. Everyone wants to be the most popular, athletic, handsome, or talented, but it’s…
Top 10 Characteristics of Gay Power Couples
So what makes a healthy and lasting long-term gay relationship successful? Our society certainly doesn’t make it easy for us as gay men to date and mate with all the homophobia and discrimination that exists. Though this is slowly starting to change in many parts of the world, man-to-man love…
How to Differentiate Between Love and Friendship
Question: I have been out of the dating scene for 10 years after having been in a long-term relationship for that length and it has since ended. I find it difficult being back on the singles’ market. I currently find myself in a strange situation; I have met a guy through…
5 Thought-Provoking Questions To Ask Yourself Daily
It takes a bit more than coffee to get your life going, which is why mornings are the most important time of our day. Not only do they set the stage for how our lives will play out, but they also define our mood – either good or bad. It’s…
Gay Advice: How to Leave a Toxic Relationship
When you’re in the middle of a toxic relationship with a man you feel invested in, it can be very, very difficult to get out of that relationship. Not only will emotional ties prevent you from feeling you can live without your current man, but logistical difficulties (such as intertwined finances…