The Real Reason Straight Dudes Have Gay Sex But Still Identify as Straight
Desire and identity are two things that are often linked but don’t always have to go hand-in-hand. At least according to Robert Burriss, Ph.D. Burriss is an evolutionary psychologist who studies human attraction and teaches at Basel University. In a new piece published by Psychology Today, he explains the difference between desire and identity. “A person can identify…
Netflix’s Special Season 2 Will Have ‘A Lot More Gay Sex’
When Netflix’s Special debuted last year it was groundbreaking for a variety of reasons but primarily for who it centered: a gay man living with a disability. The half-hour series was based on creator Ryan O’Connell’s 2015 memoir I’m Special: And Other Lies We Tell Ourselves and was equal parts comedic and heartwarming. Viewers…
‘Threesomes: Everyone Seems to be Having Them, So Why Aren’t I Fussed?’
Daniel Harding ponders whether he’s ready break down some sexual boundaries. I’ve never had a threesome. So, when my friend mentioned it to me one Sunday afternoon, I visibly blushed on FaceTime. “Oh god,” he said, “I wasn’t asking you for one. I know you aren’t the three-way type!” I…
This leading Republican Senate candidate has said gay sex should be illegal
Roy Moore, the disgraced former judge and current frontrunner in a US Senate election, has said that “homosexual conduct should be illegal.” The conservative Christian politician also compared homosexuality with bestiality. Moore, who is running for the US Senate seat vacated by Donald Trump’s Attorney General Jeff Sessions, made the…
Talking with Your Partner about Sexual Matters
Many of us spend a lot of time and energy hoping to find Mr. Right. We also imagine that when we find him, the sex will always and automatically be fabulous. When we first meet someone new, we often feel so much passion that the specifics of what we are doing…
How Being Versatile in Bed Is a Way of Life
As gay men, we are classified into different groups. Hell, not just gay men, but humans in general. We like to divide ourselves with labels. In our culture, there is no label more important than one’s sexual position. You can be a top, bottom, versatile, versatile-top, versatile-bottom, total top, power…
Gay 101: How to be a Better Bottom
Bottoming is just as much fun as Topping, and if done right can be the gateway to sensual delights man hath not even dreamed of. There are always new ways in which you can be a better bottom. As a versatile boy I get the best of both worlds and I…
Selfish Lovers and Unsatisfied Partners
You love your boyfriend more than anything and can’t imagine life without him. Things are generally good between you…except when it comes to sex. You hate to admit it, but it’s just not satisfying to you. He’s a bit selfish in bed, wanting you to do all of the work to…
SexxxPerTease Episode 30: “What Race Has It Hardest In The Gay Community?”
What ethnicity faces the most discrimination in the gay community? Find out my take on gay racism in the latest episode of SexxxPerTease! Send me more dating/sex/relationship related questions… Escape One-Night Stands that leave you feeling hollow and unfulfilled! Stop searching in vain and on your own for a Long-Term…