Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection
Rejection hurts, but it’s the ‘fear’ of rejection that makes it hurt worse. If you want more dating success, you have to learn to take the hit. For some reason, single gay men everywhere are becoming less confident about making the first move when they see an attractive man giving them the…
Gay Houston Bar Guide
WHATEVER YOUR SCENE, YOU’RE COVERED IN H-TOWN Visiting Houston and not sure which bars to hit up? Don’t worry, we’ve got this. One good thing about H-town is that there’s a scene for just about whatever you’re into. From stand-and-model to boot scootin’ honky tonk, here’s your personalized hit list…
Gay Dating and the Impact of Social Media
There are no qualms about it…we live in a digital world now where technology is king and information and immediate gratification is readily available with the click of a button. It’s even impacted our dating and sex lives. In a matter of seconds, you can pull up a slew of…
The Escalating Demise Of Gayborhoods
Personal assistant Brenden Michaels is wondering if his days in Brooklyn are numbered. He still clings to a cheap rental flat in uber-gentrified Williamsburg, but has seen his neighbourhood’s prices skyrocket. He now laughingly suspects even the improvements he’s made to his own home may eventually come back to bite…
My Boyfriend is Boring: How to Deal With It?
A boring personality is something I do not know how to deal with. I’m such an extrovert in my every day life that I find it difficult having the patience to deal with dull, shy, or unenthusiastic people, but that’s just me. Every once in a while, however, you start…
Gay Relationships: I Cheated on My Boyfriend. Should I Tell Him?
Reader’s Question: I cheated on my boyfriend and I’m not sure what to do. We talked about having an open relationship and he was adamantly against it—I was for it, did it anyway, and now I feel guilty as hell. I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t want to…
Talking with Your Partner about Sexual Matters
Many of us spend a lot of time and energy hoping to find Mr. Right. We also imagine that when we find him, the sex will always and automatically be fabulous. When we first meet someone new, we often feel so much passion that the specifics of what we are doing…
2016 is a Great Year for Gay Dating
OK, so we’re a little late. Happy New Year, and all that stuff. Now let’s get into something more exciting: gay dating. If you’ve been in a rut for a long time and you’re just not sure about getting back in the dating pool, we have one thing to say to…
The Gay Scene in Houston
There’s something for everyone in the lively metropolis of Houston. The largest city in Texas and the fourth largest city in the US is a melting pot of many cultures, and you’ll be delighted by the unique blend of Southern, Western, Mexican, and international cultures. This dynamic city is the…
Dating Again? 5 Tips for Every Single Gay Man
Being a single gay man is not the worst thing in the world. You have the time to do the activities you enjoy without compromise; you have the freedom to go on as many dates/hook-ups as possible; you don’t have to worry about someone else’s social media activity. But regardless…
Prevent a Breakup: Mistakes Gay Men Make in Relationships
Straight, Gay, LGBT – We all want to have a great relationship but some of us just don’t know how to keep one. Here are some common mistakes Gay men make in relationships. 1. Open Relationships: While we may want to live interesting and experimental lives, the biggest mistake a Gay couple…
Top Rules For Successful Gay Dating
The words rules and gay should ideally never appear together in the same sentence. For better or for worse, I do believe in rules, if only because I want to know them before I break them. Here in L.A., we are blessed with the gift of unlimited options. During the winter, we have the choice of…