City Guides | Palm Springs
While the rest of the country is scraping ice off the windshield, you can be poolside in Palm Springs, and that’s why this winter escape ruins all other winters. Thanksgiving weekend is a fine time to trade gray skies for desert sun, easy bar-hopping, and a gay pool scene with actual mountains in the background.
The vibe
Palm Springs is built for a weekend that can be as social or as gloriously lazy as you want. Pool culture is the heart of a gay weekend here. Check out gay guesthouses like INNdulge, Santiago Resort, Triangle Inn, or The Hacienda at Warm Sands. Pick your pace: lounge, swim, nap, repeat.
Winter weather helps make the plan. Visit Palm Springs describes mild, sunny winters, with December and January highs typically in the 60s and 70s. Nights can drop into the low 40s, though, so pack a layer for dinner and the walk home. This is not the season to assume your cute little evening outfit is also a coat.
Friday night: Arenas Road
Start in the Arenas district, the compact nightlife hub centered on Arenas Road. You can make a whole evening of it without turning your group chat into a rideshare logistics department. Verified bars include Chill Bar, Quadz, Streetbar, Hunters, and Toucans Tiki Lounge. Visit Palm Springs’ LGBTQ+ guide is a handy place to get your bearings.
Go where the mood takes you. Grab a drink, catch up with your friends, and see which patio has the energy you want. Maybe you’re here to dance; maybe you’re here to make eye contact with the bartender and let the plot develop. Either way, keep it easy: the district is made for wandering from one stop to the next.
Saturday: pool time, then the Tramway
Saturday morning has one assignment: pool. Order a poolside brunch, settle into a lounger, and stop pretending you need to see every attraction before noon. You came for the sunshine. Let it happen.
Then make the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway your sober daytime reset. The ride climbs to more than 8,500 feet, where the climate feels entirely different from the valley, and can be cool even in winter. Bring a warm layer and check the official hours before you go.
The winter schedule lists the first tram up at 10 a.m. on weekdays and 8 a.m. on weekends and holidays. The last tram goes up at 8 p.m., with the last one down at 9:30 p.m. Conditions and operations can change, so check the official schedule again on the day. A little mountain air and a whole lot of perspective? Excellent use of an afternoon.
Sunday: brunch, then a Toucans show
Keep Sunday unhurried. Have brunch poolside or find a downtown spot that suits your appetite, then leave room for an evening show. Toucans is an evening drag revue lounge, not a verified drag-brunch venue. Don’t plan your Sunday around a brunch there.
Its rotating revues include Slayhouse, LIPS, Looks & Lashes, Kickxyland, Dreamgirls, and Mayhem Monday. Shows typically start at 8 p.m., and reservations are strongly encouraged. But don’t assume a particular title, or even a particular showtime, is on for your date. Check the Toucans calendar for the current lineup and times, then reserve if you’ve found your show.
That’s the sweet spot for a last night: a relaxed afternoon, dinner at your own pace, then a room full of performers who know how to serve a finale. You’ll leave with a favorite number, a new story, or both.
Palm Springs makes a winter weekend feel like a proper reset without asking you to choose between poolside peace and a night out. Pack a layer, book the show you want, and let the desert set the pace.
Before you go: Hours, covers, show lineups, and Tramway conditions can change. Check venues and the official Tramway schedule before you travel; this guide runs Thanksgiving weekend. Planning another city break? Browse our guide to gay things to do in Chicago.
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