When Turning 30 Means You’re Into Guys *and* Their Dads
For one Reddit user, entering his 30s coincided with finding himself attracted to two generations of dudes. “Turning 30 means still being attracted to 23-year-olds, but you also wouldn’t say no to their dad,” the Redditor recently observed. “Something must have happened in the last year where 40-something dads have become…
Gay and Single on Valentine’s Day? Here’s How to Actually Enjoy It
Valentine’s Day can be a depressing nightmare if you’re gay and single, but it doesn’t have to be. Just because in the middle of February everywhere you look is covered in hearts and reminders about love, it doesn’t mean that the 14th is only for couples. If you find yourself…
Perez Hilton Can’t Find a Date, Claims “The Overwhelming Majority of Gay Men Don’t Like Me”
Perez Hilton is once again opening up about his dating life–or lack thereof–in a new podcast interview. Hilton, whose real name is Mario Lavanderria, made a reputation for himself as a celebrity blogger, often relishing in star scandals, defacing pictures of famous actors, or implying that they’re gay. Now, as a…
Single and Ready to Mingle? 10 Best Places to Meet a Potential Date
Finding love can be tough — if you look for it in all the wrong places. When we think of a place to find a date, bars come first. But does the world end there? Here, we look into other ideal places to search for a soulmate. Meeting that special someone often happens by accident, but can increase the odds of meeting…
Four Tired Old “Gaysian” Stereotypes That Need to Die in 2020
Living as a gay Asian (a.k.a. gaysian) man in America has had its challenges. Growing up, I never saw any Asians on television or in advertisements, let alone LGBTQ Asians. Over the years, Asians that entered mainstream media were represented as supporting roles, typically the exotic and mysterious love interest…
Alternative First Date Ideas That’ll Always Impress
Because we’re all a little bored of the dinner and a movie routine. So he said yes to a first date. Easy right? Now you have just one problem. What are you going to do? Coming up with a game plan, well, that’s not so easy. You could go down the dinner and a movie route–there’s…
5 Tips on Developing and Maintaining a Successful Intimate Relationship
Ah, the age-old question of how to keep the spark, love, and intimacy alive in a relationship. Romantic love is characterized by feelings of closeness, passion, and sexual attraction, along with a commitment to one another and your relationship. Compassionate love is characterized by mutual respect, affection, and trust. But…
Gay Guys Share Their Funniest and Sweetest Hookup Stories
A self-described “hopeless romantic” asked his fellow Redditors for their “funny/sweet hookup stories,” and you know how it goes online: Ask, and you shall receive. Here are some of the best responses… or, at least, as much of them as we can safely print! The icebreaker “This one hookup I was with…
Two Gay Men Performed a Stunning Dance Routine on Their First Date & Broke The Internet
A video of two gay men on a date dancing as they meet for the first time has gone viral. The dating and dancing show Flirty Dancing is in its second season on Channel 4 in the U.K. The show teaches two single people half of a dance routine that they perform…
8 Empowering Dating Tips For Shy Gay Guys
Listen up shy gay guys: being shy doesn’t have to get in the way of your dating life, or be the thing that holds you back from meeting someone amazing. In fact, being shy can sometimes be an asset. You just have to learn how to make it work for…
Gay Dating Online: Up Your Odds of Finding A Good Match
Before we get into the complex and beautiful world of online gay dating, let’s make one thing clear—Swiping is not dating. Matching is not dating. Chatting is not dating. Dating is dating. If you’re on online gay dating sites like Gay Dating Solutions making a ton of matches and chatting…
10 Simple Ways to Make Your Relationship Last
The beginning of a relationship is always exciting. Two people are attracted to each other, begin to discover more about one another, and can see the relationship grow. Everything about a new relationship is novel and thrilling. Once the relationship has matured however, the difficult work begins. The phase of…