Don’t Be The Crazy Ex: 8 Things to Avoid Doing After a Break Up

Written by JosephMarch 21, 2015

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Regardless of the circumstances, breaking up with your boyfriend is NEVER fun. Dealing with the emotions is hard enough, but the last thing you want are people talking about how you’re obsessed with your ex and how sad it is. It’s easy to fall into that role of the crazy ex-boyfriend so I put together […]

Regardless of the circumstances, breaking up with your boyfriend is NEVER fun. Dealing with the emotions is hard enough, but the last thing you want are people talking about how you’re obsessed with your ex and how sad it is. It’s easy to fall into that role of the crazy ex-boyfriend so I put together a few tips to help you stay off that path.

1) Chill Out On The Text Messaging – You’re broken up for a reason so remember that. You don’t need to relentlessly text him to find out how he’s doing or tell him how miserable you are without him. He needs the space, and you need the time to process things. Think about his friends laughing as he shows them your text messages and tells them how pathetic you are for not moving on.

2) Don’t Hook Up With His Friends
While this may seem like a way to get back at him, or seem like you are over him…it’s really just a way to ignite the drama between you too. IF there is any hope of you getting back together this will definitely close that door.

3) Stop Relating Every Taylor Swift Song
This is seriously a 1-way stop to depression. Whether you like her or not, you know Taylor Swift is like one of the mermaid sirens that lead sailors to their doom at the bottom of the big blue sea.

4) Put The Relationship Reminders Away
You’re broken up, there’s no reason to have your room/house still full of pictures of you guys together. It just makes it harder for you to get over him and you’re friends will start to think you might be losing it.

5) Stop Moping And Go Out
Don’t give your brain too much time to think about the breakup and what he could’ve done differently, or what you could have. Go out with friends and enjoy yourself.

6) Do Not Drunk Text Him
Nothing makes you look more desperate than a 2am text to your ex telling him you still lover him, or even worse trying to get a quick hookup (because you know it will mean more for you when you sober up).

7) Don’t Be On Stalker Status
Don’t make it a point to try and show up at all his usual spots so you can “accidentally” run into him and find out what he’s up to.

8) Remember, His Friends Are His Friends
It’s not your place to use his friends as a way to get intel on him. Chances are they are going to run back and tell him how obsessed you are with him and making things so much more awkward for you guys.





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