Gay Advice: Straight Men with Gay Fantasies
Question: I’m 41 and single. I occasionally have thoughts and fantasies about being with another man. I’ve actually fantasized about it since I was a teenager, but I’ve never had the guts to go through with it. I’ve never been successful in my relationships with women, so I wonder if I…
The Breakup Letter Strategy
When you break up with a boyfriend, it can feel like your whole world is crashing down around you as you try to make sense of what’s happened, while also trying to keep yourself together as you go through this adjustment. You are grieving, and like a death, you will…
The Distant Partner Syndrome
Question: I’m in a 3-year relationship with a man whom I love very much. We’ve lived together most of that time but he’s recently moved out for financial reasons. Now that we aren’t living together, I’m having a hard time getting him to respond to my phone calls or getting him…
Gay Chemistry: Is It Real?
Sexual attraction is real, but people don’t get that it’s not just about someone being visually stimulating. They have a scent that we as animals react to sexually. And according to researchers, gay men respond to these “scents” the same way women do. Another reason why we’re best friends! Everyone knows…
Gay Relationship Advice: The Controlling Partner
Question: My partner and I have been together for 9 years and we have a problem with control in our relationship. My partner says that I’m too controlling and it’s gotten to the point where I feel like I have to watch everything I say for fear that he’ll think…