Gay Dating 101: Preparing for a First Date
You’ve got a date. A proper, full-on date. This could be the start of that perfect relationship. You could soon be writing out wedding invitations, looking at buying a house together and picking out a cute fluffy puppy to complete your happy union. You’ve trashed your bedroom trying to find…
The Effect of Gay Porn in Relationships
Our culture in the gay male community is pretty black and white when it comes to others labeling what defines infidelity. Usually there are some sorts of steps that lead up to these acts: drugs, alcohol or simply a man wanting to be a playboy and not wanting to settle down. Yet…
Gay Dating: Waiting for Your Prince Charming is Pointless
Some fairy tales are only meant to be in books. I’m starting to think that most single gay men truly believe their prince is on his way. I hate to be a cynical asshole, but when it comes to life, I believe that waiting is wasting. Life isn’t a cliché Disney movie:…
10 Rules for Dating Gay Men
Dating in the gay community is hard, even for experienced guys like myself. I’m not one to point my finger, but in this case I’d say there are loads of men who can use a bit tweaking in terms of their dating strategy. Every now and then, we need a…
Gay Relationships: 5 Ways To Make Your Man Happier
We all know relationships aren’t easy, but trying to keep your man happy can be even harder, especially if he’s an insecure person. A long relationship requires a bit of effort. As the years go by (and the honeymoon phase begins to fade), there’s nothing wrong with reaching into your…
Chatting With a Potential Date Online
You’ve picked an appropriate dating website to fit your needs and have the type of guy who hits your desired demographic as an ideal match. You’ve set up your profile, included an informative and fun summary of your goals, likes and dislikes, and sketched out an outline of your ideal guy. That…
How to End a Date Early and Politely
I’ll start this with a story from my dating past. I was chatted up online by a witty, charming chap. We spoke on the phone and arranged to meet for date. Now my normal dating strategy was to meet for a coffee and a chat. However, he wanted to take me out…
Talking About Your Dating Past
It’s rare to find a gay virgin over 21. So with that in mind, the likelihood is the guy you’re whispering sweet nothings to has heard those words before. If this has you clutching your pearls, just think back to your very own dating past. We’ve all more than likely…
The Pros & Cons of Rebound Relationships
Mr. Right Now is never going to replace Mr. Perfect… Rebound relationships are common and always will be so long as love exists, which is forever. Casual hookups happen all the time in the gay community. When we’re going through a breakup, our smart phones are waiting for us to…
The Single Gay Man’s Guide for Valentine’s Day
If you’re single, and don’t want to be, the Valentine’s Day holiday can be torture. And there seems to be no escape from it when everywhere you go you see what appears to be happy couples, not to mention being bombarded with Hallmark advertisements and gifts at every turn. But you can…
Gay Dating: How to Read Body Language
Body language is a completely different language we can all read without taking an intensive course. We all speak it in everyday life, from a simple transaction at the restaurant to get the bill to saying goodbye with a simple wave of your hand. It’s something we learn from the…
5 Reasons Why You Stay Single on Valentine’s Day
Here we are again. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and you might be asking yourself why you are spending another Valentine’s Day alone. You tell yourself it’s not a big deal and it’s just a normal day like any other, but a slight feeling of awkwardness starts to…