Dating Tips for Gay Men Over 40
Dating can be hard enough at times, but the situation can be made that much more challenging for those single gay men who represent the age 40 and up crowd. In a society where youth and beauty are highly valued, many middle-aged men report feeling segregated and unappreciated in dating pools,…
Reasons Why You Should Date a Shy Guy
You look up from your book at the coffee shop and become paralyzed with nervous anticipation as you see the hot guy you’ve been smitten with from afar sit down at the table across the room.He’s alone today and what a great opportunity it would be to finally approach him…
The Importance of Validation in Relationships
Over the years, I’ve had slews of couples come through my office with a variety of presenting issues that range anywhere from communication breakdowns, to sexual dysfunctions, to infidelities, to diminished passion, etc. These only name but a few, but the common denominator that appears pervasive throughout most relationship difficulties…
Gay Relationships: The Exclusivity Talk
You’ve met the guy of your dreams. You want to be exclusive, but you don’t know if he does. OK, the “exclusive” conversation can be as loaded as a double-barrel shotgun. Before you have it, consider what your definition of exclusive actually is. Are you expecting to move in together?…
Are You Dating a Player?
This article will shed some light on the profile of a “player”, provide some tips for the “ex-player” to promote successful dating relationships without letting his past destroy genuine opportunities, and suggest potential warning signs for the gay dater that might signal that the guy he’s seeing might actually be…
10 Signs He’s a Total Beast in Bed
When our man is great at sex, you don’t really need to think about it. It’s evident by the way you want him time and time again, but despite how much you know, there are definitely some big signs to tell you just how good he is. Here are just…
Gay Dating Advice: Why Are You Still Single?
“I’m so fed up with being a “nice guy” and getting nowhere for it. I continue to be perplexed by my situation and want to understand better why others act the way they do, what I am doing wrong, and what things I can do to improve myself. I’m not…
Dating Advice: I’m Gay and Fat
Reader Question: I am overweight but a great person. Men don’t want to give it a chance unless they want just sex or money. Why are men so superficial? – Martin B. ——————————————————————————————————— Dear Martin, Men tend to be more visually wired than women. Couple that with a hyper focus on…
“No Asians, No Blacks.” ― Picky Dater or Racist Dater?
Grindr will get you laid. And possibly make you a crime victim. But among all those muscled chests and sexy profiles to swipe through, it takes about a second to find one with “no Asians” or “no blacks.” That’s racist and here’s why. The offensive quip in a profile is mostly…
Are You Dating A Potential Cheater?
Recently I have had lots of correspondence from guys who have accidentally got involved with men who are either married or partnered. This is a common issue, and it’s something I’ve encountered in my own dating past. The world is full of cheaters – unfaithful men are found the world over…
Gay Dating Dilemmas: How to Say No!
We have all been through our fair share of dating blunders, pitfalls and disasters. If you are single, it is easy to get discouraged after a few too many dating disappointments. But fret not, because there are men out there who are just like you, and it only takes finding…
Gay Advice: Post-Date Etiquette
There’s lots of advice out there when it comes to having a successful date, but your follow up can be equally important when it comes to hooking that hottie for another romantic round. Your actions in the days that follow a first date will say a lot about the type…