Gay 101: How to be a Better Bottom
Bottoming is just as much fun as Topping, and if done right can be the gateway to sensual delights man hath not even dreamed of. There are always new ways in which you can be a better bottom. As a versatile boy I get the best of both worlds and I…
Gay Couples: 8 Tips For Moving In Together
Some say moving in together is the proverbial kiss of death. Others think it’s the best thing since sliced bread or since the invention of dildos. Moving in with your significant other is a big deal – from fighting for the covers every night to waking up with the person you love…
PDX Gay Guide: Portland Queer Film Festival
The annual Portland Queer Film Festival takes place October 2 – 8, 2015. The festival annually showcases feature, documentary and short films from all over the world that are made by, about or of interest to the lesbian, gay, bi, trans and questioning community. Film is a dynamic medium with…
Reader’s Dilemma: He Wants to Have a Threesome. And I Don’t!
Reader’s Question: “Hello there, I have a few issues I need resolved please. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost four years. He works nights a lot and leaves early. I assumed he was cheating on me as I can’t give him what he wants in bed. So one night I…
Gay Online Dating: Tips for Dating Online Safely & Successfully
Online dating is a very useful platform for hopeless romantics trying to search for the right one. But just as with every other website that requires personal information, online dating sites must be treated carefully and with caution. Looking for love need not be risky. A few steps to ensure your…
Happy Gay Couples: Tips to Ensure a Long-Lasting Relationship
Everyone knows that perfect couple that just seems to have it all. How do they do it? Well, the secret to a happy relationship is more than just loving each other, it’s putting in that extra effort to make the relationship last. Are you searching for that ideal, enduring love?…
Gay Bar Guide: Get Down In Seattle Nightlife
Seattle is known for its coffee, music scene, and that place where they throw fish back and forth. We decided to dig a little deeper and see what the Emerald City had to offer when in the way of gay nightlife, and boy are we glad we did! The name…
Good and Bad Conversation Topics for a Successful First Date
Ah, the first date. Where great relationships begin, or stumble into awkward, dead-end conversation. To have a great conversation you often have to ask an open question and then follow up to the other person’s response with statements. Try not to ask a reel of questions. Instead, ask a question; listen…
Blurred Lines: Can You Stay Friends With An Ex?
There are a plethora of reasons why you can technically remain friends with someone after dating them. But still, should you be friends with an ex? Depending on how long you were in a relationship with your ex, chances are you were in love with them. And regardless of the reason you broke…
Gay Relationships: Dealing with a Bully, Abusive Boyfriend
Love can blind us to bullying in unforeseen ways. You probably won’t see it until years down the line, and even then you still try and mask it with past memories—“Somewhere inside is that man I fell in love, so I’m going to keep on keeping on.” Sometimes boyfriends change…
Atlanta Gay Guide: Which Bars Are Smoke-Free?
For Atlantans who prefer their nights out without the pungent scent of cigarette smoke the morning after, the past few months have created a much wider range of bar options. Every week, it seems like another bar is announcing that they’ve restricted smoking. The reasons tend to boil down to…
Cut The Crackpot: Dealing with Crazy People
Crazy folks – everybody got them! Not the mental illness but people who are rational most of the time but have one area of life where they just see cross eyed. How many crazy gay men does it take to screw in a light bulb? The longer you try and make sense…