Are Inter-generational Gay Couples a New Trend in Dating?
Why are there so many famous inter-generational gay couples? And is that reflecting changes in the way gay men date? Or is it just that as society grows more tolerant of homosexuality that less well-known aspects of it are surfacing in the media? First, we have to define what we…
10 Gay Dating Rules for Men Over 50
It’s Never too Late to Teach an Old Dog New Tricks! Dating as a mature gentleman opens up a whole new perspective on love. Men of a certain age are used to the old school system of thought and practice – you ask a guy out, you have some fun,…
The Do’s and Don’ts of Gay Matchmaking
The moment I start dating a guy, I immediately think about what single friends I can set up with my new beau’s single friends. After all, birds of a feather, right… and no one likes to be single in a group of couples or be the third wheel. Certain precautions…
Does Personality Matter In The Gay Community?
I’m not afraid to admit that I judge people on their personality. All it takes is one annoying trait (usually a pretentious one) to get me turned off, especially when I’m on a date. But for the majority of gay men, I find it to be a little different. We…
Gay Flirting: 4 Tips For Making The 1st Move
I have been getting a lot of questions on gay flirting and making the first move. Well, today is your lucky day because I am going to let you in a few of my secrets that will not only get his attention, but also create a curiosity to leave him wanting…
The Most Important Secret to a Good Gay Relationship
Are you a good boyfriend? If you think this will be a blog post about remembering to bring flowers home and serving breakfast in bed, you are mistaken. Yes, doing nice things for your man can enhance the flow of goodwill in your relationship, but it is not the most…
How to Go From Best Friend to Boyfriend
The fine line between “boy” and “friend” is much wider than any of us think, especially in the gay community. So many gay guys are afraid of being upfront about our feelings, which gets you nowhere. Trust me. It’s tough being considered your crush’s best friend. The role is easy…
Gay Relationship Killer: Jealousy
You might feel it when that hot stud across the room at the gym gives your lover “the look-over.” You might experience it if your ex-boyfriends ever cheated on you and then you project it onto your current man. Or you might experience it if you have an “open relationship”…
Are Gay Asians Discriminated in our Community?
It’s Hard Out Here for a Gaysian! America has been called the melting pot of cultures. While the term sounds nice, it’s safe to assume that most Americans know the truth. Yes, there are many races living beside each other, but stereotypes have been just as much a part of…
4 Steps to Getting More Dates
In my experience coaching single gay men, I have found there are four main areas that, if successfully cultivated and worked on, tend to foster greater dating opportunities that yield results. If you’ve been having a difficult time establishing and maintaining relationships with the guys you meet, perhaps something may…
Gay Dating: How to Know Your Boyfriend is Cheating?
Cheating often means the end of a relationship. Even if a couple decides to stay together after one cheats on the other, there’s a good chance your relationship won’t be the same as it was beforehand. If you and your partner communicate exceptionally well, then cheating might ultimately strengthen your…
Gay Relationships: What’s Missing From Gay Romance Today?
Relationships are like a gondola ride (go with me here). Love is the water inside the canal, meaning it keeps our relationship afloat. But gay romance is the wind and ore that pushes us forward, without it the journey will be stationary and boring. A relationship empty of romance is…