10 Things Single Gay Guys are Sick of Hearing
Single gay guys don’t want your pity. Hell, we don’t even want your help most of the time. It might surprise you to know that many of us are happy and don’t need a boyfriend or husband to define our self-worth, but chances are you probably won’t believe us no…
Gay Relationships: When Is it Time to Start Dating Again?
After you’ve left a relationship, well meaning friends may give advice that likens dating to riding a horse: if you get thrown, the trick is to get back in the saddle again as quickly as possible or you will lose your nerve. This is usually a bad idea. True, the…
Love Makes Gay Men Blind, But Does Lust Make Us Stupid?
I’m not the purest guy on the block. Hell, I’ve been around it so many times I forgot where I even started. But every now and then, the block becomes about something more. When I found a good man along the way, every place I’d been, every body I laid…
10 Things You Should Never Lie To Your Boyfriend About
No one likes a fishy boyfriend. Relationships are definitely not the place for secrets, especially when we’re investing our heart and soul. Getting lied to by someone you love hurts more than anything else in the world which is why it’s important to know the non-negotiable’s of honesty. After all,…
The Reasons Why Gay Men Suck at Dating
The older we get in life the more pressure we have in finding a stable relationship. For single gay guys around the world, it can get personal real quick. With every passing year, more and more people begin to look at us with judgmental assumptions as to why we haven’t…
10 Qualities to Help You Boost Your “Sexiness Factor”
Dating can be an elusive activity, particularly in the gay community where no roadmap was offered to us during our socialization as kids on how to negotiate man-to-man intimate relationships. Left to our own devices, many of us have stumbled trying to figure out the best method for snagging our Mr.…
Why Are Gay Men So Attracted to Arrogant Guys?
There has been a serious debate about the definition of sexy. Like most people I think confidence is one of the best qualities a man can have, but there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. As much I love to sleep with a man who has high esteem,…
Gay Relationships: How To Be The Most Romantic Partner Your Lover Has Ever Had
A candlelit table for two at the best table in a fancy restaurant. Champagne. Soft music. Tender words. The essence of romance, right? Maybe, but romance can mean many things. “Sexual attraction, suitable conditions for lovemaking, fascination and enthusiasm” are a few of the definitions in my dictionary. The trouble…
To the Gay Men Who Think They’ll Be Forever Alone
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY BECAUSE YOU’RE HERE A friend once told me the only kind of gay men I attracted were lost boys that needed someone to look after them. For years, my “type” of men didn’t exist. I made them up in my head. My ideal mate…
Gay Dating 101: Protecting Your Self-Esteem
Every person has a sense of self worth which may or may not be accurate. This self worth or self esteem allows a person to form beliefs and opinions. High self esteem does not mean pride or inflated ego, but an honest opinion of self. However, low self esteem does…
5 Signs He’s Not Into You Anymore
So, you and that new guy you are seeing are in the early stages of dating? Or maybe you have been dating for a while now and are on the cusp of making things official by calling each other partners. Your heart is invested in your budding relationship and you…
The Gay Man’s Guide to Dating After 50
If you’re looking for love, these tips will get you headed in the right direction. Bette Davis used to say, “Getting older ain’t for sissies.” Amen! Neither is dating at midlife — especially if you’re a gay man. Whether you’re single again after the end of a long-term relationship or…