10 Tips on Handling Your Office Crush
Like most 9 to 5 people, I’ve had multiple crushes on coworkers. There’s no shame in it, but there’s always a time when you should ask yourself if it’s a good idea. Personally I think it’s hot to fantasize about what your cubicle mate is wearing underneath his suit. It…
The Smart Guide to Flirting
Today’s homosexual is just as tenacious as he ever was, except now his options are virtually limitless. Since the birth of gadgets and hook-up apps, we’ve become picky, clueless, and impractical with our people skills. The result? A bar full of flirting retards. It’s not every day we have the…
Gay Advice: Post-Date Etiquette
There’s lots of advice out there when it comes to having a successful date, but your follow up can be equally important when it comes to hooking that hottie for another romantic round. Your actions in the days that follow a first date will say a lot about the type…
Gay Dating 101: Ten First Date Red Flags
That First Date You are getting ready to meet that handsome guy you met online or through a close friend for that all important first date. Feeling excited and a little nervous, you look hard in the mirror and think to yourself: “Will he like me? What should I wear? Does…
Be Yourself: 3 Ways to Stand Out From the Crowd
Standing out from a crowd requires more than just a fancy outfit or a loud set of vocal cords. It’s about being memorable, inspiring and above all, original. The world today has turned into an attention competition. Everyone wants to be the most popular, athletic, handsome, or talented, but it’s…
Hooking Up Online: 5 Ways To Keep Yourself Out Of Danger
When it comes to hooking up online, everybody’s done it. We’re sex-positive in these parts, and we figure if you’re gonna do it we may as well give you a few pointers on how to stay safe, so here are five ways you can be safer while hooking up online.…
The 9 Most Obnoxious Internet Commenters
If you want to write for the Web, you have to have a thick skin: people get nasty. And if you want to write for a gay blog site, you need a Kevlar bodysuit. In my long career of putting things on the Internet, many readers have taken advantage of comments sections…
5 Tips to Make Your Online Dating Profile Stand Out
Gay dating websites can be an awesome way to connect but can also be a real drag. Messages go unanswered, hours seem wasted scrolling through endless profiles and something that’s supposed to hook you up leaves you feeling as isolated as ever. But the problem can be easier to solve than you think. It might seem annoying to…
Gay Relationships: Exploring Your Sexual Fantasies
Joseph and Mickey are both buttoned-down businessmen and have been together for ten years. They’ve been inseparable since Joseph picked Mickey up one night after cruising him for hours at the dance bar they frequent. The seduction was hot: eye contact led to physical contact, then making out in a…
How To Dump Your Sex Buddy
Urban Dictionary defines a friend with benefits as “Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved.” It is someone you can get away with drunk texting on Friday night from a bar after your fifth cocktail. It can be someone who you would never date for various reasons (he rides…
Gay Relationships: How to Spice Up Your Sex Life
A Reader’s Question: What can we do to spice up our sex life? I have a younger lover and I think he is getting bored! _______________________________________________________________ Revving up one’s sex life in a relationship can be lots of fun, particularly since repetitive and monotonous sexual routines can actually begin to get boring…
Gay Dating and Money Matters
Money can be a very contentious issue when you’re dating, and money can be the main cause for a relationship breakup, whether through a disparity between the people in the relationship or a complete lack of funds. When we first enter a relationship, the money sense in us is pretty…