How to Make Safe Sex Even Sexier
Despite our knowledge about HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections these days, recent studies point to a decrease in condom usage among gay and…
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Changing the Dynamics of your Relationship
It is easy to get stuck in a relationship rut. We human beings are creatures of habit. Often we don’t like change much, especially…
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Gay Men, Ageism and Aging Well: Finding Your Purpose
I just finished reading about the suicide of a gay therapist Bob Bergeron. No one knows for sure why he committed suicide—the author of the…
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The Ethics of Gay Dating
One of the most common complaints I receive from single gay men about the dating scene is their frustration and pain of wearing “the…
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Gay Advice: How to Leave a Toxic Relationship
When you’re in the middle of a toxic relationship with a man you feel invested in, it can be very, very difficult to get…
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The Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating
These days, going online is as common a way to meet someone as a blind date or the bar scene, and you can connect to gay men of…
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Are You Pressured to Have Sex on the First Date?
I have to say it’s rare for me not have sex on the first date, though it does happen from time to time. I’m still unsure…
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It’s Time To Break Up: 10 Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore
I like to imagine life as a really big roadmap. Our lives intersect at many different times as we travel up and about towards…
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7 Damaging Relationship Myths — Debunked!
When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in. And frustration is the number one thing that eats away…
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5 Dating Tips For Short Gay Men
Good things come in small packages. Overwhelmingly, a lot of gay men prefer tall guys. But if the ideal man is tall, dark and handsome, are…
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Art of Flirting: A Gay Man’s Guide to Seduction
Flirting for gay men can range from being enjoyable to rather difficult depending on the social and personal context. In some places you are…
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Rethinking the One-Night Stand
Do you dream about finding Mr. Right and living happily ever after? So do I. But sometimes I wonder if mainstream American gay male…
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