10 Signs You’re Dating a Jerk
We’ve all date Jerks in our lives. I know I’ve dated plenty. If I had a nickel for every idiot I dated, I could buy and sell a Starbucks franchise. But the thing is if we hadn’t dated these types of men, we might never know the real gems when we…
Gay Dating: When Your Online Match Doesn’t Meet Your Expectations
Every date I’ve had in the past year had originated from an online source. One of the earliest began with the occasional hello on gay dating apps and eventually escalated into a full-fledged text relationship. We realized through our incessant messages we were texting on the precipice of a great relationship. Everything was going…
Top vs Bottom: How Important Is Your Sex Role?
In my years of dating, I’ve managed to come across countless of gay men who wear their sex position on display. Dating is hard enough, but for LGBT men it can get a bit more complicated when the entire focus is on sex. Top, bottom, versatile becomes need-to-know information in…
Gay Advice: Finding a Partner vs. Finding a Fantasy
I’m like you and you’re like me – we all want to love, but most importantly we want to be loved in return. This is the secret to living a long and successful life, yet we’ve failed to put two and two together when it comes to choosing a compatible mate. I’m…
The Truth About Casual Gay Sex
Casual Gay Sex Encounters I know I don’t have to tell you that gay men enjoy sex, honey. But so does everyone else – it’s called being human. One thing that separates us from the rest of society, unfortunately, is our experience with casual sex. It’s become a stereotype we often try to fight…
Gay Dating: 5 Tips On Wooing Your Valentine
Picture this: You dating a new guy and you think he’s absolutely awesome. The relationship is still pretty new, but the chemistry is there and you see the potential for something long-term to develop. You want to make plans for Valentine’s Day, but you are not exactly sure what to…
Gay Dating 101: Preparing for a First Date
You’ve got a date. A proper, full-on date. This could be the start of that perfect relationship. You could soon be writing out wedding invitations, looking at buying a house together and picking out a cute fluffy puppy to complete your happy union. You’ve trashed your bedroom trying to find…
Gay Dating: Waiting for Your Prince Charming is Pointless
Some fairy tales are only meant to be in books. I’m starting to think that most single gay men truly believe their prince is on his way. I hate to be a cynical asshole, but when it comes to life, I believe that waiting is wasting. Life isn’t a cliché Disney movie:…
How to End a Date Early and Politely
I’ll start this with a story from my dating past. I was chatted up online by a witty, charming chap. We spoke on the phone and arranged to meet for date. Now my normal dating strategy was to meet for a coffee and a chat. However, he wanted to take me out…
Talking About Your Dating Past
It’s rare to find a gay virgin over 21. So with that in mind, the likelihood is the guy you’re whispering sweet nothings to has heard those words before. If this has you clutching your pearls, just think back to your very own dating past. We’ve all more than likely…
Gay Dating: How to Read Body Language
Body language is a completely different language we can all read without taking an intensive course. We all speak it in everyday life, from a simple transaction at the restaurant to get the bill to saying goodbye with a simple wave of your hand. It’s something we learn from the…
Gay Chemistry: Is It Real?
Sexual attraction is real, but people don’t get that it’s not just about someone being visually stimulating. They have a scent that we as animals react to sexually. And according to researchers, gay men respond to these “scents” the same way women do. Another reason why we’re best friends! Everyone knows…