Should You Have an Open Gay Relationship?
Who says you can’t have your cake and eat it too? In the gay dating world, an open relationship is fairly common, and for many couples it feels perfectly natural and entirely feasible. For others, the idea of knowing that your partner will be with someone else is totally unacceptable…
Gay Dating 101: Love Yourself First
“If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you’re gonna love somebody else?” – RuPaul We live in a world that tells us to put our own needs last and that we need to seek validation from other people. You may have heard “you have to love yourself before you can…
Gay Dating and the Impact of Social Media
There are no qualms about it…we live in a digital world now where technology is king and information and immediate gratification is readily available with the click of a button. It’s even impacted our dating and sex lives. In a matter of seconds, you can pull up a slew of…
2016 is a Great Year for Gay Dating
OK, so we’re a little late. Happy New Year, and all that stuff. Now let’s get into something more exciting: gay dating. If you’ve been in a rut for a long time and you’re just not sure about getting back in the dating pool, we have one thing to say to…
Top Rules For Successful Gay Dating
The words rules and gay should ideally never appear together in the same sentence. For better or for worse, I do believe in rules, if only because I want to know them before I break them. Here in L.A., we are blessed with the gift of unlimited options. During the winter, we have the choice of…
Gay Dating: Are You Dating a Psycho Obsessive Stalker?
No one wants to date a psycho. The relationship will be frustrating, and even worse, you could put yourself and the people around you at risk. Unfortunately, there are plenty of nutjobs online. It seemed like such a great romance. He was just your type and the mutual attraction was instantaneous. Dates were…
Dating Tips for Gay Men Over 40
Dating can be hard enough at times, but the situation can be made that much more challenging for those single gay men who represent the age 40 and up crowd. In a society where youth and beauty are highly valued, many middle-aged men report feeling segregated and unappreciated in dating pools,…
How to Use The Power of Tease
Not everyone can be Casanova, though there are many guys who try to. If you’ve ever been in the gay dating world, you probably have seen your fair share. They’re the ones who try too hard to impress you, have witty pick up lines that are unoriginal, and are blindsided…
Gay Dating: The Old Fashioned Way
It’s time to throw away your iPods… Telling single gay guys to stay offline for a week is hard. When you don’t have a man to keep you company, the only thing you have is the uneventful, yet ever exciting, world of social media. For those who are actively searching…
Are You Pressured to Have Sex on the First Date?
I have to say it’s rare for me not have sex on the first date, though it does happen from time to time. I’m still unsure why. Perhaps it’s rare for me to meet a man I connect with on a level beyond sex, which usually makes me want to wait. Whatever…
Sex on The First Date: Good or Bad Idea?
Another common gay dating dilemma revolves around whether to have sex on the first date or not. This has often been a controversial subject among gay men, with opinions being split right down the middle. There’s not necessarily a right or wrong answer, as these types of scenarios are rarely ever black…
Gay Dating: Survival of the Fittest Gay Man
The wonderful world of dating is full of joyous experiences and is soaked in potential for a dream-like future. However, the reality of it can be a mixed bag. Here are some of the top tips to make sure you get the most out of each experience: Create a foundation. The dating…