Gay Dating Advice: How to Handle Age Differences
Reader Question: I recently met this guy who I really like. He told me he had screwed up every other relationship in his life and didn’t want to screw this one up. He admitted that I was everything he had hoped to find in a person. I told him I…
It’s Over! ― 10 Breakup Survival Tips to Get You Through It
Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? Lost love is never an easy thing to get over. So much energy spent investing in him, daydreaming about the future, smiling for no reason makes it’s hard to face the fact it was all…
Signs You Might Be a Sex Addict
We all love sex, especially us gay folk. Men are sexual by nature. It’s what makes our biological structure the way it is, in fact, sexual release is what keeps us grounded. But how much is too much? Sex addiction is very real and is just as serious as any…
6 Tips for Getting a Good Night’s Sleep with Your Boyfriend
As many as 70 million Americans may be affected by chronic sleep loss or sleep disorders. That’s a lot of sleepy people! And if you happen to be one of those annoyingly inspiringly happy people who’s found the man of his dreams, the downside can often be an even tougher time getting that all-important…
The Importance of Validation in Relationships
Over the years, I’ve had slews of couples come through my office with a variety of presenting issues that range anywhere from communication breakdowns, to sexual dysfunctions, to infidelities, to diminished passion, etc. These only name but a few, but the common denominator that appears pervasive throughout most relationship difficulties…
Relationship Advice: 8 Success Tips for Gay Couples
As gay men, you’ve struggled through and endured all the challenges inherent in finding true love with another man in this homophobic society, but you did it! You found your Mr. Right! So now what?! Not only did we as gay men not receive any education or guidance in how…
Gay Relationship Advice: Adjusting to Living Together
Reader’s Question: My partner and I just bought a house together. We are very excited about it and feel like it is a new exciting phase in our relationship. However, we can’t seem to agree on design choices for the house. Conversations about the subject lead to what seems like…
How to Beat a Boring Sex Life in Relationship
“I’ve got to beat the clock before we each lose interest.” Someone recently made that statement to me about his erotic life with his partner. His experience has been that erotic interest between two people dies pretty quickly, so you better get in as much sex as possible during the…
6 Relationship Mistakes Gay Men Make Over And Over Again
While there were a couple of good points made, for the most part we GAGGED at what we were reading (if your relationship can’t survive a Facebook status, you got other issues). It also made us feel sad that men really attribute these shallow reasons to why their relationships aren’t…
How Important Is Anal Sex In Your Relationship?
Sex is one of the most intriguing parts of a committed relationship. Two minds, bodies and souls connecting in such a vulnerable way increase not only the excitement, but the ever-growing trust which is crucial in everyone. But why is it when we think of sex with gay men, we assume…
Gay Advice: Maintaining a Successful Relationship
In fact there are common elements in every type of relationship but us, gay couples have our own special problems and challenges to live through as well as benefits of course. First of all, gay couples have to permanently fight with the rules and barriers of the homophobic society and it’s not an easy…
Dealing with Gay Porn Addiction
Having sex with a computer screen can be a lot less stressful than the real thing. This I know for sure, honey. There’s no need to shower, no need to worry about looking your best, and no need to stress about him calling you the next morning. If you ask…