Gay Advice: Post-Date Etiquette
There’s lots of advice out there when it comes to having a successful date, but your follow up can be equally important when it comes to hooking that hottie for another romantic round. Your actions in the days that follow a first date will say a lot about the type…
How to Differentiate Between Love and Friendship
Question: I have been out of the dating scene for 10 years after having been in a long-term relationship for that length and it has since ended. I find it difficult being back on the singles’ market. I currently find myself in a strange situation; I have met a guy through…
Knowing The Difference: Like Versus Love
I have dated party boys, ivy-league boys, model boys, even just plain… boys. But when it comes to “like,” I have a plethora of experiences. For many single gay men, finding love is like chasing a dream. It’s hard to confuse love with sexual tension or even a really heavy amount…
How to Make Safe Sex Even Sexier
Despite our knowledge about HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections these days, recent studies point to a decrease in condom usage among gay and bisexual men. Why is this happening in spite of our knowledge of safer sex education and of the lethality that can be involved with contracting HIV? There…
Rethinking the One-Night Stand
Do you dream about finding Mr. Right and living happily ever after? So do I. But sometimes I wonder if mainstream American gay male culture is actually working against us in that department. Much of our culture seems designed to fan the flames of desire and encourage us to have…
How Gay Men Can Overcome the Hurdles and Find Mr. Right
OK, so, you’re gay, you want to find a partner and eventually a husband; someone with whom to share your life. However, you just can’t seem to meet the right guy or make the right connection. You keep coming up empty-handed, stymied in your efforts, no matter what you try.…
Are You Giving Up On Love?
Love has become a constant search. There comes a time in every man’s life when he has to question what devotion actually is. People are getting married way later than they used to, which means there are more young singles roaming the earth than ever before. Being single myself, I…
20 Reasons Gay Men Choose to Stay Single
Are you confused why the men in your life always seem to want to stay single? Don’t let those romance movies fool you, ladies and gentleman. Being single definitely has its virtues … provided being single is your goal. I believe one of the greatest joys in life is falling in love—whether that…
10 Reasons Why Gay Men Hate Their Bodies
NUDE IS THE NEW BLACK Gay men everywhere are cursing their bodies as a matter of form. It’s become normal to not like the way you look so more people are joining in on the fun. Personally, I find it a disgrace. As someone who actually loves his body, I know…
A Dating Guide for Gay Virgins
While our gay community is enjoying some well-deserved heightened acceptance of our identities and relationships in society nowadays, the process of coming out as a gay man to ourselves and others can still be a difficult and painful journey. Coming to terms with our sexuality means facing the fact that we’re…
The Truth About Casual Gay Sex
Casual Gay Sex Encounters I know I don’t have to tell you that gay men enjoy sex, honey. But so does everyone else – it’s called being human. One thing that separates us from the rest of society, unfortunately, is our experience with casual sex. It’s become a stereotype we often try to fight…
10 Rules for Dating Gay Men
Dating in the gay community is hard, even for experienced guys like myself. I’m not one to point my finger, but in this case I’d say there are loads of men who can use a bit tweaking in terms of their dating strategy. Every now and then, we need a…